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The rule nobody wrote down but everybody enforces anyway.
means Something forbidden by social or cultural convention rather than by law — off-limits to say, do, or even mention.
from Borrowed from Tongan 'tapu' (also found across Polynesian languages, e.g. Fijian 'tabu'), meaning 'forbidden' or 'set apart as sacred.' Captain Cook brought the word into English in the 1770s after encountering Polynesian systems of ritual restriction — certain people, places, or objects marked untouchable, often by chiefly or religious decree. English flattened the sacred-and-dangerous original into a broader word for anything socially off-limits, which is a bit of a theft: the Polynesian concept carried real spiritual weight that the English borrowing mostly strips away.
- origin
- from Tongan tabu, meaning forbidden or sacred
- captain cook
- brought the word to english in 1777
- paradox
- naming it often breaks it instantly
- shifts fast
- yesterday's scandal is today's small talk