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Emotion that's stopped doing its job and started performing for an audience.

means An excessive, self-indulgent display of tenderness or nostalgia that exceeds what the situation actually warrants.

from Traces back to Latin 'sentire,' meaning simply to feel or perceive — the same root that gives us 'sense' and 'sentient.' The word 'sentimental' emerged in the 18th century as a genuinely admiring term, describing refined, tender feeling (think of Laurence Sterne's 1768 'A Sentimental Journey'). But within decades the word curdled — critics began using it to mock emotion that was performed, overwrought, or cheaply manipulative rather than sincerely felt. 'Sentimentality' crystallized that sneer into a noun: the same root that once praised feeling now names its theatrical imitation.

vs genuine feeling
real emotion observes the thing, this observes itself feeling
oscar wilde line
wanting the luxury of emotion without paying for it
favorite trick
substitutes a symbol for the messy actual experience
greeting card industry
built entirely on monetizing this shortcut
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