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the quiet superpower of telling your impulses to take a number and wait.

means The ability to regulate your own impulses, emotions, and behavior, holding back from what you want now for the sake of something you want more.

from A transparent compound of "self" + "control." "Self" traces back to Old English "self," the same ancient Germanic root behind German "selb" and a cousin of words across the family. "Control" took a more roundabout road: from Anglo-Norman "contreroller," the act of checking accounts against a duplicate register — a "counter-roll" (Latin "contra" + "rotulus," a little wheel or scroll). So "control" literally meant double-checking the books. Bolt "self" to the front, and you get the idea of keeping your own ledger in order — auditing your impulses before they spend you.

finite fuel
some studies suggest willpower drains like a muscle
marshmallow test
kids resisting candy predicted later life outcomes
prefrontal cortex
the brain's brake pedal, last to fully mature
app named
a Mac tool literally blocks distracting sites cold
glucose link
low blood sugar weakens resolve, snacks restore it
for instance

ulysses app — macos app that blocks distracting websites for set periods, founded 2010

alcoholics anonymous — 12-step program founded 1935 to help people abstain from alcohol

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