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Doing the thing everyone warned you about, specifically because they warned you.
means Taking a reckless risk, especially one that flirts with danger or disaster for an exciting or forbidden payoff.
from A straightforward extension of the literal act — children told not to play with fire because it burns, hence the figurative leap by the 19th century to any risky flirtation with trouble. The metaphor needs no folklore: fire has always meant both warmth and ruin, and the idiom just borrows that double edge for anything dangerously tempting, from romance to rule-breaking.
- risk math
- the thrill is the danger, not despite it
- common users
- teenagers, traders, people in situationships
- usual ending
- either a great story or a hospital visit
- idiom origin
- predates actual matches by centuries