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An apology with a delivery mechanism, usually baked, poured, or gift-wrapped.
means A gift or gesture offered to smooth over conflict, apologize, or restore goodwill after a dispute.
from A biblical phrase, from the Hebrew 'shelem' / 'shalom' sacrifices described in the Old Testament — offerings made to God to restore right relationship and well-being, not just to atone for wrongdoing. The religious ritual sense gradually secularized: by the time the phrase entered everyday English, it had slid from altar to living room, describing any conciliatory gift offered to patch up a quarrel.
- origin
- ancient ritual of sacrificing to appease gods
- modern form
- pizza, wine, or a well-timed coffee
- psychology
- works because guilt is easier to swallow with snacks
- risk
- wrong gift can restart the argument