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The emotional interest you pay after defaulting on being a decent person.

means To make amends is to repair a wrong through concrete action, not just an apology — you actually do something to set the balance right again.

from From Old French 'amender,' meaning to improve or correct, which traces back to Latin 'emendare' — 'e-' (out of) plus 'menda' (a fault or blemish). So at its root, amends literally means removing the fault, correcting the flaw. The same Latin root gives us 'mend' and 'emend.' The phrase 'make amends' preserves this old sense of actively repairing damage, rather than just feeling bad about it.

not an apology
sorry is words, amends is proof
etymology
from mend, as in fixing, not feeling
the test
changed behavior, not grand gestures
12-step fame
step nine made it famous, unless it causes harm
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