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The relationship your brain edits into a highlight reel, deleting all the arguments.
means The person from your past you now remember as a nearly-perfect missed chance, because you only kept the good parts of the memory.
from The phrase comes straight from fishing talk — the big fish that slipped the hook and swam off, destined to grow larger and more legendary with every retelling. By the 20th century it had hooked (sorry) onto romance, applied to a lost lover who, like that fish, becomes more impressive the longer they're gone and the less you actually remember about them.
- nostalgia bias
- memory deletes red flags, keeps the lighting flattering
- fishing origin
- literally a fish story before it was a love story
- actual stats
- most exes stay exes for reasons you forgot
- real function
- lets you miss a person who no longer exists