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The thing you hate but would miss more if it vanished.

means Something unpleasant or undesirable that must be accepted because the alternative, or its absence, would be worse.

from A straightforward compound of 'necessary' and 'evil,' tracing to classical and medieval political and religious thought — philosophers wrestling with things like government, taxation, or even marriage, concluding they were 'evils' in some sense but ones society couldn't function without. The phrase has circulated in English since at least the 1500s, often in debates justifying institutions that chafe but hold things together.

logic trap
calls something both bad and required, unapologetically
common use
taxes, lawyers, alarm clocks, middle management
origin
traced to ancient debates on government's purpose
sneaky function
often excuses things that are just convenient, not necessary
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