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The original multiplayer strategy game, minus the romance and plus the politics.

means A household's women's quarters, traditionally in Muslim societies, and by extension the group of women — wives, concubines, relatives — living under one man's protection and authority.

from From Arabic 'ḥarīm,' meaning 'forbidden' or 'sacred, protected place' — the same root (ḥ-r-m) that gives Arabic 'ḥarām' (forbidden) and 'ḥaram' (sanctuary, as in the sacred precincts of Mecca). The word named the private, off-limits part of a house before it came to mean the people who lived there. It entered English via Turkish usage, filtered through centuries of Western fantasy and Orientalist imagination that flattened a complex domestic and political institution into a stock image of languor and romance — the 'politics' the essence points to is the real history; the 'romance' is the myth outsiders layered on top.

etymology
from Arabic haram, meaning forbidden or sacred
misconception
was a power center, not a prison
ottoman reality
mothers often ruled empires from inside it
modern echo
anime genre stole the word, kept none of the politics
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