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A wound you keep reopening so it never gets the satisfaction of healing.
means A specific complaint or sense of unfair treatment that you feel entitled to be angry about.
from From Old French 'grevance,' built on 'grever' meaning to burden or injure — itself from Latin 'gravare,' to weigh down, rooted in 'gravis,' heavy. The same heavy root that gives us 'grave' and 'gravity.' So a grievance was always, literally, a weight — something pressing down that you carry rather than set loose.
- legal origin
- once meant a formal complaint, not a feeling
- shelf life
- outlasts whoever caused it
- political fuel
- easier to organize people around than hope
- difference from anger
- anger fades, grievance keeps receipts