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Two people certain they're right, colliding in public.

means An argument or disagreement, especially one serious enough to get formally hashed out — whether over money, borders, or who said what first.

from From Latin 'disputare' — 'dis-' (apart) plus 'putare' (to think, reckon, or settle accounts). So to dispute is literally to 'think apart,' to reckon in opposite directions. The same 'putare' gives us 'compute' and 'reputation' — all about weighing and counting things up, except here two people are doing the sums and getting different answers.

legal cousin
Credit card 'disputes' invoke the same Latin reckoning
etymological irony
Putare also roots 'compute' — disputes were math once
diplomatic euphemism
Nations call wars 'disputes' to sound reasonable
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