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A grudge with a family tree and a lawyer on retainer.

means A bitter, long-running hostility between two people, families, or groups, kept alive over years through retaliation and resentment.

from Feud traces back to medieval Germanic law, where a related term described the state of deadly hostility between families, often tied to the right of vengeance for a killing — this sense merged with an Old French word, 'feide,' into Middle English. A separate word 'feud' meaning a fief or feudal estate comes from an entirely different root, related to 'fee' — pure coincidence that the two look identical, though it's tempting to imagine ancient landowners bickering over borders.

origin
from medieval word for hostility, not fee
longest running
hatfields and mccoys lasted 28 years
key trait
outlives the original insult by decades
modern form
now mostly fought via subtweet
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