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A word that softens skin and sentences, often at the exact same time.

means A substance that softens and soothes skin — or, figuratively, language or behavior designed to calm tempers and smooth over conflict.

from From Latin 'emollire,' to soften, built from the prefix 'e-' (out, thoroughly) plus 'mollire' (to soften), itself from 'mollis' (soft) — the same root behind 'mollify' and 'mollusk' (soft-bodied creature). The word entered English in the 1600s as a medical term for skin-softening ointments, and only later picked up its figurative sense for words or gestures that take the sting out of a hard situation.

literal use
Skincare term for softening and soothing agents
figurative use
Describes words or gestures meant to placate anger
etymology
From Latin mollire, to soften
common pairing
Often modifies tone, gesture, or diplomatic language
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