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The difference that matters, dressed up to sound important.

means A difference or quality that sets something apart, or the recognition of excellence that comes from standing out.

from From Latin distinctio, built on distinguere — 'to separate by pricking apart,' from stinguere, 'to prick or sting.' The same root gives us 'extinguish' (to prick out, snuff out), so distinction and extinction are oddly related cousins: one marks a thing as separate and special, the other separates it right out of existence.

etymology
from latin distinguere, to prick apart
academic use
the grade that means brag at dinner
irony
often claimed by things barely different
social function
lets people feel superior with a straight face
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