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British for 'my preference,' because committing to 'I like this' felt excessive.

means Something that suits your particular taste — usually used in the negative, to politely say something isn't for you.

from Tied to Britain's long love affair with tea itself: by the early 1900s, calling someone or something 'my cup of tea' meant they were exactly to your liking, as comforting and personal as your own preferred brew. The phrase likely grew from earlier expressions praising a pleasing person as 'all tea' or similar — tea being the household standard of agreeable warmth. The negative form, 'not my cup of tea,' came slightly later and is now by far the more common use, perfectly suited to a culture that prefers understatement to outright rejection.

literal origin
actual tea became metaphor for personal taste by 1800s
negative form
not my cup of tea politely means absolutely not
underlying logic
everyone has opinions about tea, so everything got compared to it
true test
a proper cup of tea needs no metaphor, just milk
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