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The polite word for a fight nobody will admit is a fight.

means A point being argued over, or the state of ongoing dispute or rivalry between people who disagree.

from From Latin 'contendere' — 'con-' (together) plus 'tendere' (to stretch) — literally to stretch oneself alongside another, as in a race or a struggle. The same root gives us 'contend' and 'tension.' So contention is, at its root, two people stretched taut against each other — which is a pretty accurate picture of most arguments.

root
from latin contendere, to stretch tightly together
legal use
the core claim a lawyer must defend
bone of contention
originally dogs fighting over an actual bone
sports sense
still alive, not yet eliminated from winning
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