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means The process or moment of reaching adulthood, often marked by a transition into greater independence, maturity, or social recognition.
from A plain English compound built from the everyday sense of 'age' meaning a particular stage of life. The key word is 'age' itself, which traveled from Latin 'aetas' (a span of life) through Old French 'aage' into English. To 'come of age' originally carried a precise legal weight — reaching the age (long fixed at 21 in English common law) when a person could inherit property, sign contracts, and answer for themselves. The phrase has since softened from a courtroom milestone into a broader rite of passage, and lends its name to a whole genre of stories about that bewildering threshold.
- global ritual
- Nearly every culture invents a ceremony to mark it
- brain reality
- Prefrontal cortex finishes maturing around age 25
- legal age
- Adulthood threshold varies wildly by country and right
- literary genre
- Bildungsroman novels exist solely to chronicle it
- old origins
- Jewish bar mitzvah dates back over two millennia
bat mitzvah — jewish girls' religious ceremony at age 12 or 13 marking religious maturity
bar mitzvah — jewish boys' religious ceremony at age 13 marking religious maturity
walkabout — aboriginal australian rite of passage where young men journey into the outback