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Part bartender, part therapist, fully unpaid for the therapy part.

means A man who works behind a bar, mixing and serving drinks to customers.

from A straightforward compound of 'bar' — the counter where drinks are served, itself from the barrier of wood or metal separating staff from customers — and 'man.' The word 'bar' for a drinking establishment traces back to that literal physical barrier, first used in taverns and inns to keep patrons at a distance from the stock; by the 19th century 'barman' had settled into English as the plain job title for the person stationed on the business side of it.

etymology
british term, same job as bartender
real skill
remembering your order, not your tragic backstory
economics
tips reward charisma more than cocktail precision
unwritten rule
pours stiffer drinks for better tippers
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