the.com/backseat driver

Someone with zero control and infinite opinions about your control.

means A passenger who criticizes or gives unsolicited instructions to the person actually driving — or, by extension, anyone who meddles in a task they aren't responsible for performing.

from Literal before it was figurative: the phrase comes straight out of early 20th-century motoring, when cars grew common enough that someone in the back seat could — and apparently always did — lean forward with opinions about the driver's speed, lane choice, or turns. The term was in use by the 1920s in American English, migrating quickly from literal car trips to any situation where someone with no hands on the wheel insists on steering anyway.

origin
from actual wealthy passengers correcting chauffeurs, 1920s
psychology
anxiety disguised as superior navigation skills
irony
never offers to drive, only to critique
applies beyond cars
any unsolicited advice from the sidelines
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