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professional memory athlete who carries your dinner and your judgment without writing either down

means A person, traditionally a man, whose job is to take orders and serve food and drink to customers at a restaurant or café.

from Straight from the verb 'wait,' in its older sense of 'to attend upon, to serve' — the same notion in 'lady-in-waiting' and 'wait upon someone.' That sense traces back through Old North French 'waitier' (to watch, attend) to a Germanic root meaning 'to watch, be vigilant,' a cousin of 'wake' and 'watch.' So the waiter isn't idly waiting — etymologically they're the one keeping a watchful eye on you, ready to attend. The dining-room sense, paired with 'waitress,' settled into English by the 17th century.

name origin
from one who waits, attends, serves
top earners
fine-dining tips can outpace junior lawyers
silent code
crossed utensils signal you're not finished
balance feat
trays carried flat-palmed above shoulder for stability
old role
medieval servers tasted food for poison
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central perk on friends — gunther was the main waiter/manager at this fictional coffee shop, 1994-2004

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