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The sentence where the bottom actually runs the meeting.
means Someone who takes the controlling, dominant role in a sexual or power dynamic — but does the steering, pacing, and deciding.
from Straightforward Old English stock: 'top' meaning the highest or dominant point, turned into a verb of action with '-ing.' The kink-community sense is a modern, logical extension — top as in on top, in charge, running the show — not a borrowing from anywhere exotic, just English doing what it does best: making a noun into a job description.
- myth busted
- Tops aren't always physically on top
- service topping
- dominant who exists to please the bottom
- switch
- someone who tops and bottoms, situationally
- real skill
- attentiveness, not aggression, defines good topping