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The one friend whose 98 makes your 95 feel like a public failure.
means A person or thing that surpasses whatever came before, especially one who outdoes someone else's achievement, joke, or story.
from Straightforward agent-noun work: 'top' (to surpass, be above) plus '-er' (one who does the action). The verb 'top' meaning 'to exceed' or 'outdo' has been around since at least the 1500s, building on 'top' as the highest point of something. 'Topper' followed the same logical path — the one who tops you. The word also picked up a separate life as slang for a tall hat (the literal top of an outfit) and as the last joke in a comedy bit, but the competitive-friend sense is just the plain verb doing its job.
- origin story
- British school slang for rank-first student
- social cost
- grading curve ruined for entire classroom
- real skill
- often just knows what teacher wants
- adult outcome
- sometimes works for the class clown later