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Promising a payoff and getting paid in anticipation instead.
means To provoke, mock, or stimulate someone playfully—or coax something out through persistent, teasing effort—without fully delivering.
from From Old English 'tæsan,' meaning to pluck apart or comb out fibers, as in carding wool or flax. The sense shifted from physically worrying apart strands to figuratively worrying at a person—pulling at their patience or composure bit by bit—before settling into the lighter, flirtier sense of provoking without delivering.
- origin
- from old english taesan, meaning to pull apart fibers
- psychology
- works because near-rewards trigger dopamine almost as hard as real ones
- spectrum
- ranges from flirting to outright cruelty, same mechanism
- media trick
- trailers are entire industries built on this one word