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Silence with a personality — not shy, just unwilling to waste words on you.

means The quality of habitually saying little, of being reserved or disinclined to talk.

from From Latin taciturnitas, built on tacitus ('silent, unspoken'), the same root that gives us 'tacit.' Tacitus itself comes from tacere, 'to be silent' — the verb Rome used for holding one's tongue. The word passed through French before settling into English in its current Latinate heaviness, which suits it: a long, grave word for the act of saying nothing at all.

not shyness
shy people want to talk, this one doesn't
etymology
from latin tacere, to be silent
coolidge test
calvin coolidge made it a presidential trademark
often mistaken
for wisdom, sometimes correctly
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