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the guy who didn't have to show up, but did anyway.

means The man married to one's parent (usually the mother) who is not one's biological father.

from From Old English steop-, a prefix tied to words for bereavement and loss — it appears in steopcild, a bereaved or orphaned child. So 'step-' originally marked a relationship born of grief: a stepfather was the man who stepped into the gap left by death, and only later by divorce or remarriage. The word literally carries the memory of a missing parent. It's a cousin to German Stief- (as in Stiefvater), both descending from the same Germanic root for the orphaned.

word origin
steop meant orphaned or bereaved in Old English
fairy tales
got off easy; stepmothers took all the villain roles
adoption
can legally become dad with a signature
modern math
millions of kids live with one today
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