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The person forced into a round hole who was never, ever the problem.
means A person whose personality, temperament, or talents simply don't fit the shape of the role, institution, or group they've been placed in.
from From the old mechanical image of trying to fit a square peg into a round hole — the pieces just don't mate, no matter how hard you force them. The phrase 'square peg in a round hole' shows up in English writing from the 1800s, likely drawn from real carpentry and tooling work, where mismatched pegs and holes were an everyday, literal frustration before they became a metaphor for misfit people and misplaced talents.
- origin
- from 19th century idiom about mismatched fit
- implication
- blames the hole, not the peg
- workplace use
- code for brilliant but unmanageable
- real lesson
- wrong shape often means wrong hole