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Hard exterior, optional; melts the moment a dog looks at it sideways.

means A person who seems tough or no-nonsense but is actually easily moved to sympathy, affection, or sentimentality.

from Straightforward formation: 'soft' (Old English 'softe,' meaning gentle, mild, not hard) plus the informal '-ie' suffix that English loves to tack onto adjectives to turn them into affectionate nouns for people — think 'sweetie,' 'toughie,' 'cutie.' The word shows up in the 19th century as slang for a weak, foolish, or easily-imposed-upon person, with the warmer modern sense — someone secretly tender-hearted — settling in over time as the word mellowed, much like the people it describes.

secret identity
tough talker who cries at insurance commercials
tell
says maybe when they mean absolutely
weakness
anything smaller than them, literally anything
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