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Capitalism's way of making friendship feel like a $20 budget cap.
means A gift exchange where each participant is randomly assigned one person to buy a surprise present for, usually with a set spending limit, so everyone gets a gift without having to shop for the whole group.
from The custom of anonymous gift-giving has old roots — most famously in the legend of St. Nicholas secretly leaving coins or gifts for those in need — but the 'Secret Santa' label and its party-game format are a 20th-century workplace-and-office tradition, an American coinage that fused 'Santa Claus' with the 'secret' of a hidden name drawn from a hat. The name stuck because it's exactly what it says on the tin: a Santa, kept secret, until the reveal.
- origin
- US tradition from the 1800s, formalized by 1900s offices
- real risk
- someone always re-gifts the candle they received last year
- psychology
- anonymity makes people braver and cheaper simultaneously
- office version
- invented plausible deniability for bad gift-giving