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A fight too embarrassed to call itself a fight.

means A brief, messy, disorganized struggle or fight, usually at close quarters and more flailing than fighting.

from Scuffle emerged in the 1500s, likely as a frequentative form related to 'shove' or 'shuffle' — the '-le' ending in English often signals repeated, scrappy action (think 'wrestle,' 'tussle'). It's probably a cousin of 'shuffle,' both suggesting feet dragging and bodies jostling rather than clean, decisive blows. The sound of the word does a lot of the work: it scrapes and stumbles, much like the thing it describes.

etymology
probably from shuffle, as in confused shoving
duration
usually over before anyone throws a real punch
vs brawl
brawl has intent, scuffle has bad balance
common venue
parking lots, hockey rinks, group chats gone physical
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