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Someone whose highlight reel you mistake for their life.

means A person held up as an example whose behavior or success others are encouraged to imitate.

from A 20th-century coinage from sociology — the sociologist Robert K. Merton is credited with popularizing 'role model' around the mid-1900s, building on his work on 'role theory,' which borrowed the theatrical idea of a 'role' (a part played, from French 'rôle,' originally the roll of paper an actor's lines were written on) and applied it to the social parts people perform — parent, doctor, leader. A 'role model' was simply someone whose performance of a role others patterned themselves after. The word's theater roots are why we still say people 'play' a role, long before they ever model one.

etymology
coined by sociologist Robert Merton in 1957
illusion
you copy the result, not the 10,000 failures
side effect
proximity often disappoints more than distance
best kind
one who shows the mess, not just the medal
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