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Someone whose highlight reel you mistake for their life.
means A person held up as an example whose behavior or success others are encouraged to imitate.
from A 20th-century coinage from sociology — the sociologist Robert K. Merton is credited with popularizing 'role model' around the mid-1900s, building on his work on 'role theory,' which borrowed the theatrical idea of a 'role' (a part played, from French 'rôle,' originally the roll of paper an actor's lines were written on) and applied it to the social parts people perform — parent, doctor, leader. A 'role model' was simply someone whose performance of a role others patterned themselves after. The word's theater roots are why we still say people 'play' a role, long before they ever model one.
- etymology
- coined by sociologist Robert Merton in 1957
- illusion
- you copy the result, not the 10,000 failures
- side effect
- proximity often disappoints more than distance
- best kind
- one who shows the mess, not just the medal