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A polite postponement that lets everyone pretend the invitation was always genuine.

means A promise to accept an offer or invitation later instead of now, used literally for rescheduled events or loosely as a polite 'maybe next time.'

from Comes straight from American baseball: in the 1880s, ballparks began issuing fans a literal 'rain check' ticket stub if a game was called off due to rain, letting them attend a future game for free. The term jumped from stadiums to stores in the early 1900s, when shops offered 'rain checks' letting customers buy a sold-out sale item later at the same price. From there it soaked into everyday speech as a courteous way to defer any invitation.

origin
1880s baseball ticket stubs for rained-out games
literal use
stub promised free admission to rescheduled game
modern function
graceful exit from plans nobody fully wanted
unspoken rule
rarely actually redeemed, by mutual agreement
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