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means An intense but usually short-lived romantic infatuation felt especially by children or teenagers.

from First recorded in the early 1800s, built simply from 'puppy' — a young, clumsy, over-eager dog — plus 'love.' The image is of affection with all the enthusiasm and none of the coordination: puppies bound at you with total devotion but no finesse, which is exactly how the phrase frames teenage crushes — sincere, a little goofy, and not expected to last into adulthood.

term origin
coined 1823, comparing teen crushes to clumsy puppies
neuroscience
same dopamine rush as adult romantic love, less impulse control
duration
average teen crush lasts about four months
function
practice run for real heartbreak and real bonding later
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