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The lie you tell yourself about why you chose the one you chose.

means A greater liking for one thing over another, shown by the choices you make.

from From Latin praeferre, 'to carry in front' or 'put before' — prae ('before') plus ferre ('to carry, bear'). The same ferre gives English words like 'transfer' and 'offer.' So a preference is, at root, simply whatever you've carried to the front of the line.

not logic
Built from exposure, not evaluation of options.
order bias
First and last choices get picked most.
revealed vs stated
What you click beats what you claim.
default power
Preset options silently become preferences over time.
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