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A patron who refuses to let grammar pretend money has no gender.

means A woman who provides financial support, sponsorship, or protection to a person, cause, or institution.

from From Old French 'patronesse,' feminine form of 'patron,' which traces back to Latin 'patronus' — a protector or advocate, itself built from 'pater,' meaning father. The word originally described the legal protector of a freed slave in Rome, a relationship of obligation and guardianship, before loosening over centuries into any wealthy backer of artists, institutions, or causes. The feminine suffix '-ess' was bolted on in English to mark the patron as a woman, back when language insisted on flagging gender even in matters of pure cash and influence.

origin
Latin pater, father, filtered through French flattery
usage
Mostly survives in opera programs and saints
modern fate
Quietly retired for gender-neutral patron
irony
Often funded art no man would touch
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