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The texture of most of life, which is exactly why it ambushes you with meaning.

means The quality of being usual, unremarkable, and typical — the ordinary-ness of things that happen every day without fuss.

from Built from 'ordinary,' which comes from Latin ordinarius, meaning 'orderly, regular, following the customary order' — itself from ordo, 'row, rank, sequence.' So the word's deep root is about things taking their proper place in a series, nothing out of line. The abstract noun suffix '-ness' was bolted on later to turn the adjective into the quality itself — the state of being unremarkably in order.

heidegger called it
das Man, the anonymous comfort of doing what one does
brain's bias
attention is tuned to novelty, so ordinary vanishes unnoticed
writers' trick
defamiliarize it and ordinariness becomes the whole plot
statistical truth
nearly every day of your life will be one of these
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