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The first sentence that decides if there will ever be a second one.

means A person or thing that starts something off — most often the opening act, item, or move in a sequence.

from A straightforward agent noun: 'open' plus the suffix '-er,' which turns verbs into 'the one who does it' (as in baker, singer). English has stacked '-er' onto 'open' since the word has existed as a verb; the specific sense of 'opener' as a bottle-opener or an opening act or line is just that same old machinery applied to newer jobs — the thing or person that does the opening.

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Pickup artist jargon that leaked into normal conversation
best ones
Reference something specific, not your ego
worst ones
Anything starting with hey stranger
irony
Confidence matters more than the actual words
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