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The verbal footnote that says: quote me and I'll deny we ever met.

means Said or shared with the understanding that it won't be officially quoted, attributed, or reported.

from Draws on 'record' in its legal and journalistic sense — the official, written account of proceedings that can be checked and cited. Court records, meeting minutes, and press records are 'the record.' By the early-to-mid 20th century, journalists and officials used 'off the record' to mark information given outside that official account — spoken, but not for the books. The phrase has stayed close to its origin: it still means exactly what it says, something kept off the thing that gets kept.

origin
Journalism term from early 20th century press briefings
legal reality
Courts don't recognize it; subpoenas don't care
etiquette
Must be agreed before you talk, not after
trust test
Reporters who leak it lose sources forever
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