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the quiet architect of every strong thing that ever thought it built itself

means A person who feeds, protects, and patiently develops the growth of someone or something, helping them flourish over time.

from From 'nurture,' which came through Old French 'norriture' (nourishment, upbringing) from Latin 'nutritura' — a feeding, a rearing — rooted in 'nutrire,' to suckle or nourish. The same Latin source quietly feeds 'nutrition' and 'nurse.' The '-er' suffix simply names the one who does the doing, so a nurturer is, at the bone, one who keeps another fed enough to grow.

hidden labor
Caregiving worth trillions goes unpaid worldwide yearly
two-way street
Tending plants lowers the tender's blood pressure
brain rewire
Caring rewires neural reward circuits like new parenthood
not gendered
Male emperor penguins fast months nurturing eggs
deep roots
Nurture from Latin nutrire, to suckle and feed
for instance

fred rogers — created and hosted mr. rogers' neighborhood for 33 years, nurturing millions of children's emotional development

maria montessori — developed the montessori method emphasizing child-led learning and nurturing individual potential since 1907

dolly parton — founded the imagination library in 1995, sending free books monthly to nurture childhood literacy in sevier county, tennessee

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