the.com/neighbour
Someone close enough to hear your life and judge it in real time.
means A person who lives near you — in the next house, flat, or plot of land.
from Built from two old Germanic pieces: 'neah' (near) and 'gebur' (dweller, farmer, peasant — someone who dwells or tills the land). So a neighbour was literally your 'near-dweller,' the person whose farm or hut sat close enough to yours that your lives were bound to overlap. The spelling split later — Americans dropped the 'u' (neighbor), the British kept it — but both trace back to the same near-dweller.
- legal duty
- tort law literally built on who your neighbour is
- spelling split
- loses the u crossing the atlantic, keeps the judgment
- fence theory
- good ones allegedly made by better fences
- proximity trap
- chosen by geography, not compatibility