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Chess where the board is someone else's self-esteem and you never admit you're playing.

means Manipulative psychological tactics used to unsettle, confuse, or control someone, often without them realizing it's happening.

from A straightforward compound of 'mind' and 'games,' gaining its modern psychological edge in mid-20th-century English — 'games' here carrying its sense of manipulative strategy rather than play (as in the much older idiom 'to play games with someone'). It rose alongside a growing postwar vocabulary of popular psychology, which gave everyday speech terms for subtler, invisible forms of manipulation.

core move
make them doubt their own memory
clinical cousin
gaslighting is the extreme edition
tell
the rules change once you start winning
best defense
naming the game out loud kills it
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