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Chess played on someone's ego, with their own doubt as the board.

means A tactic of psychological manipulation or deception used to gain advantage over someone or unsettle their confidence.

from A 20th-century compound, pairing 'mind' with 'game' once 'game' had long since widened from sport to mean any strategic contest or scheme. The phrase caught on alongside the rise of psychology as pop vocabulary — once people had language for projection, manipulation, and self-doubt, they needed a word for using that knowledge against someone. 'Mind games' (plural) and 'playing mind games' remain the common forms, borrowing the language of sport for something far less fair.

best players
never raise their voice, just an eyebrow
core trick
make you defend yourself against nothing
tells
sudden compliments right before a request
counter
naming the game out loud usually ends it
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