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A gathering where people come together to remember and honor someone who has died.

means A ceremony held to honor and remember someone who has died, typically without the body present.

from From Latin 'memorialis' meaning 'of memory,' rooted in 'memor' (mindful, remembering) — the same root giving us 'memory' and 'memorandum.' 'Service' comes from Latin 'servitium,' originally about servitude and duty, which drifted over centuries into the sense of a formal religious or ceremonial observance. The pairing itself is a practical, relatively modern habit — as cremation and delayed gatherings became more common, people needed a word for the remembrance ceremony that wasn't also a funeral for a body in the room.

timing
Held days or months after death, no rush
vs funeral
No casket present, often already cremated or buried
flexibility
Can happen anywhere, beach, backyard, favorite bar
tone shift
Leans celebration of life over somber ritual
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