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The society patriarchy warns you about, which mostly just means your aunt is in charge.

means A social system in which women — often the eldest mothers — hold the primary positions of power, authority, and lineage.

from Built in the 19th century from Latin 'mater' (mother) bolted onto the Greek-derived '-archy' (rule), deliberately mirroring 'patriarchy.' It's a hybrid coinage, not an ancient word — scholars stitched it together to name a social structure they were debating about, and that debate (how common matriarchies really were historically) has never fully settled.

historical rarity
No confirmed large-scale matriarchy has ever been documented
closest example
Mosuo people trace lineage and property through mothers
common myth
Not simply patriarchy with genders swapped
bonobo twist
Female-led bonobo groups use sex to defuse conflict
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