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A status you don't earn once and keep — you re-earn it by how you treat people.

means The state or qualities of being an adult male — maturity, and the courage, responsibility, or strength traditionally bundled with it.

from Built from 'man' plus the suffix '-hood,' an old Germanic ending that means 'state' or 'condition' (you see it in 'childhood,' 'brotherhood,' 'likelihood'). 'Hood' once stood alone in Old English as a word for condition or rank before it shrank into a mere suffix — so 'manhood' literally means 'the condition of being a man.' The word is old, dating back to Middle English, and has always carried both a plain, biological sense and a loaded, earn-it-every-day moral one.

not biology
testosterone gives you adulthood, not character
cultural invention
rites of passage vary wildly across history
fragility myth
called fragile mainly by people selling the cure
best test
how you act when no one's grading you
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