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A status you don't earn once and keep — you re-earn it by how you treat people.
means The state or qualities of being an adult male — maturity, and the courage, responsibility, or strength traditionally bundled with it.
from Built from 'man' plus the suffix '-hood,' an old Germanic ending that means 'state' or 'condition' (you see it in 'childhood,' 'brotherhood,' 'likelihood'). 'Hood' once stood alone in Old English as a word for condition or rank before it shrank into a mere suffix — so 'manhood' literally means 'the condition of being a man.' The word is old, dating back to Middle English, and has always carried both a plain, biological sense and a loaded, earn-it-every-day moral one.
- not biology
- testosterone gives you adulthood, not character
- cultural invention
- rites of passage vary wildly across history
- fragility myth
- called fragile mainly by people selling the cure
- best test
- how you act when no one's grading you