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Lunch, but it went to finishing school and learned to use a napkin.

means A formal, often midday meal — lunch dressed up with a proper agenda, like a business meeting, a ceremony, or your grandmother's good china.

from Oddly, 'luncheon' didn't come before 'lunch' — it's the other way around, despite sounding fancier. In the 1600s, 'luncheon' (or 'nuncheon' in earlier forms) meant a hunk or lump of something, especially food — a thick slice of bread or cheese eaten between proper meals. 'Lunch' emerged as a shortening of this older word, and then, confusingly, 'luncheon' stuck around too, eventually drifting upmarket to mean a more formal midday meal while plain 'lunch' stayed casual. So the 'fancier-sounding' word is actually the ancestor, not the descendant.

origin
16th century, meant a thick slice or hunk
vs lunch
lunch is the lazy abbreviation, not the other way
usage today
survives mainly in menus trying to seem fancy
implies
someone RSVP'd and there is a seating chart
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