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Polite shoving — physics with an apology built in.

means To bump, push, or knock against someone or something, usually while moving through a crowd.

from Jostle grew out of Middle English 'justen' — to joust, as in knights charging each other with lances. Add the frequentative suffix '-le' (the same trick that turns 'nudge' into 'nuzzle') and jousting shrinks from battlefield collision to the everyday bump of elbows in a crowd. So every time you jostle someone at a sale rack, you're technically jousting them, just without the horse.

origin
from joust, medieval combat softened into crowd etiquette
implies
contact is accidental, blame is optional
subway use
the verb for love disguised as aggression
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