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Intimacy with the paperwork removed and the plausible deniability kept intact.
means A casual sexual or romantic encounter entered into without the expectation of commitment or a defined relationship.
from Rooted simply in 'hook' — the physical fastener used for connecting two things — which by the 19th century had spawned 'hook up' meaning to connect or join, as with equipment or machinery. The phrase drifted through electrical and mechanical senses (hooking up a wire, hooking up with a ride) before American slang bent it toward people: first meaning simply to meet up or team up with someone, then narrowing, over the 20th century, into its current romantic-but-noncommittal sense. The shift mirrors the word's own logic — things get connected, then just as easily disconnected.
- definition drift
- meant literally connecting wires before it meant this
- ambiguity feature
- deliberately vague so nobody has to define the relationship
- peak era
- college campuses, where logistics beat romance every time
- morning after
- the text determines if it was a hookup or a thing