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Intimacy with the paperwork removed and the plausible deniability kept intact.

means A casual sexual or romantic encounter entered into without the expectation of commitment or a defined relationship.

from Rooted simply in 'hook' — the physical fastener used for connecting two things — which by the 19th century had spawned 'hook up' meaning to connect or join, as with equipment or machinery. The phrase drifted through electrical and mechanical senses (hooking up a wire, hooking up with a ride) before American slang bent it toward people: first meaning simply to meet up or team up with someone, then narrowing, over the 20th century, into its current romantic-but-noncommittal sense. The shift mirrors the word's own logic — things get connected, then just as easily disconnected.

definition drift
meant literally connecting wires before it meant this
ambiguity feature
deliberately vague so nobody has to define the relationship
peak era
college campuses, where logistics beat romance every time
morning after
the text determines if it was a hookup or a thing
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