the.com/helicopter parent
Love so loud it drowns out the kid's own voice.
means A parent who hovers over a child's every move, swooping in to manage problems the kid could have handled alone.
from Coined by analogy to the helicopter's hovering flight — the term traces to a 1969 book on parent-teen relations where a teenager described a mother who 'hovers like a helicopter' over his life. It stayed a fringe term until the 1990s, when it took off as a label for anxious, overinvolved parenting styles.
- term origin
- coined 1969, teens said parents hovered
- dictionary entry
- added to merriam-webster in 2011
- research finding
- linked to higher anxiety in college students
- irony factor
- meant to prevent failure, often prevents resilience