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Love so loud it drowns out the kid's own voice.

means A parent who hovers over a child's every move, swooping in to manage problems the kid could have handled alone.

from Coined by analogy to the helicopter's hovering flight — the term traces to a 1969 book on parent-teen relations where a teenager described a mother who 'hovers like a helicopter' over his life. It stayed a fringe term until the 1990s, when it took off as a label for anxious, overinvolved parenting styles.

term origin
coined 1969, teens said parents hovered
dictionary entry
added to merriam-webster in 2011
research finding
linked to higher anxiety in college students
irony factor
meant to prevent failure, often prevents resilience
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