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the art of doing nothing together until it secretly becomes everything.

means A casual place or gathering where people spend relaxed time together with no particular agenda.

from From the verb phrase "hang out," where "hang" traces back to Old English "hangian" (to be suspended). The sense of loitering or dawdling about — hanging around a place rather than from a hook — grew in the 1800s, and "hangout" as a noun for a favorite haunt followed, originally tinged with the slightly disreputable air of a den where idlers and rogues hung about.

origin
1840s American slang for a habitual loitering spot
low stakes
the only event with no agenda and no RSVP
science
loose ties from hangouts predict happiness more than close ones
third place
sociologists call these neutral grounds essential to communities
google ghost
a video app once stole the name, then quietly died
for instance

central perk — fictional coffee shop where the cast of friends gathered for 10 seasons

cheers bar — boston bar where regulars gathered in the tv series set from 1982-1993

skywalker ranch — george lucas's 5,000-acre estate in marin county where filmmakers and creatives gather

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