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A once-common label for low sexual desire, now seen as oversimplified and often unfairly blamed on women.
means A cold lack of warmth or sexual responsiveness — or, more broadly, any chilly, unfeeling stiffness in temperament.
from From Latin 'frigiditas,' from 'frigidus' meaning cold, rooted in the verb 'frigere,' to be cold or chilly. The physical sense (low temperature) came first; the word drifted into emotional and sexual territory as a metaphor — cold body, cold heart, cold bedroom. It entered English via French in the late medieval period, used for centuries to describe climates and personalities before narrowing, in the 19th and 20th centuries, into a clinical-sounding label aimed almost exclusively at women's desire.
- origin story
- Coined when female pleasure was medically optional
- freud's take
- Blamed unresolved psychosexual stages, naturally
- modern view
- Usually mismatched stimulation, not broken anatomy
- clinical status
- Dropped from DSM for actual nuance